READING RECAP 2024

I’m a bit late in sharing my 2024 reading list. The reason for the delay is in part due to my choice to remove myself from social media, a place where I’ve shared a link to this blog as a means to attract readers. So, despite the fact that many won’t see this post, I do have subscribers who will have an opportunity to peruse the list and perhaps find a title or two that resonates with them. Also, I set a goal of reading 60 books, but fell short of that mark by ten. (It was a busy year, full of lots of lessons and opportunities for growth.) Below is my list of the 50 books I finished, including the genres of fiction, non-fiction, memoir, and self-help.

If I had to choose a title that stands out as a “must-read”, I choose One Year in Uvalde: A Story of Hope and Resilience. We, as a society, have become somewhat numb to the ever-growing number of school shootings. This book shares what life looks like for the families and communities in the aftermath of these senseless acts of violence. This book touched me in a deeply personal way, as many of the victims of these crimes are children.

I wish you the best this new year. I hope you choose to contribute love and light in a world that often seems steeped in fear and darkness. Spread joy, compassion, kindness, empathy, inclusion and tolerance wherever you go. It’s so simple, yet so necessary. Happy reading!

TITLEAUTHOR
The House We Grew Up InLisa Jewell
The Boys: A Memoir of Hollywood and FamilyRon Howard & Clint Howard
The Top Five Regrets of the DyingBronnie Ware
The Heaven & Earth Grocery StoreJames McBride
The Book of Two WaysJodi Picoult
Loving FrankNancy Horan
When Less Becomes More: Making Space For Slow, Simple, & GoodEmily Ley
1000 Words: A Writer’s Guide To Staying Creative, Focused, and Productive All Year RoundJami Attenberg
Becoming Gandhi: My Experiment Living the Mahatma’s 6 Moral Truths in Immoral TimesPerry Garfield
Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and LeadBrene Brown
A Painted HouseJohn Grisham
Maybe Next TimeCesca Major
For The Love of Sophie: How a custody battle resulted in the execution-style murders of eight people in a small Ohio townBeth Philley
Summer SecretsJane Green
Walking Home: A Pilgrimage from Humbled to HealedSonia Choquette
Little Pieces of MeAlison Hammer
In Five YearsRebecca Serle
The Last Love NoteEmma Grey
Drunk-ish: A Memoir of Loving and Leaving AlcoholStefanie Wilder-Taylor
Class: A Memoir of Motherhood, Hunger, and Higher EducationStephanie Land
Good Girls: A Story and Study of AnorexiaHadley Freeman
The Year of Goodbyes and HellosKelly Irvin
Sharing Too Much: Musings From An Unlikely LifeRichard Paul Evans
The Age of Magical Overthinking: Notes on Modern IrrationalityAmanda Montell
Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and GuidanceKelly McDaniel
The Guncle AbroadSteven Rowley
After AnnieAnna Quindlen
Did I Ever Tell You?: A MemoirGenevieve Kingston
One Year in Uvalde: A Story of Hope and ResilienceJohn Quinones & Maria Elena Salinas
The Life We BuryAllen Eskens
Living With Our DeadDelphine Horvilleur
Knife: Meditations After an Attempted MurderSalman Rushdie
What A Fool Believes: A MemoirMichael McDonald with Paul Reiser
Funny StoryEmily Henry
What You Wish ForKatherine Center
The Hating Game Sally Thorne
Good Boy: My Life in Seven DogsJennifer Finney Boylan
A Hunger to Kill: A Serial Killer, a Determined Detective, and the Quest for a Confession That Changed a Small Town ForeverKim Mager with Lisa Pulitzer
The Friday Afternoon Club: A Family MemoirGriffin Dunne
Ikigai: The Japanese Secret to a Long and Happy LifeHector Garcia & Francesc Miralles
Becoming Supernatural: How Common People Are Doing the UncommonDr. Joe Dispenza
Crying in the Bathroom: A MemoirErika L. Sanchez
The Widow’s Guide to Dead BastardsJessica Waite
The Life ImpossibleMatt Haig
Medical Medium: Secrets Behind Chronic and Mystery Illness and How to Finally HealAnthony William
To All The Boys I’ve Loved BeforeJenny Han
Earthing: The Most Important Health Discovery Ever!Clint Ober, Stephen T.Sinatra, MD., Martin Zucker
A Short Walk Through A Wide WorldDouglas Westerbeke
Reconciliation: Healing the Inner ChildThich Nhat Hanh
Expiration DatesRebecca Serle

Music: It’s Within Us All

     I recently witnessed an extraordinary event about the power of music and how it truly is the language of our soul. I believe the world is a better place because of music, regardless of the type or genre. It gets us moving, motivates us, inspires us, calms us when we’re stressed or anxious, and connects us with others. This is all due to the release of neurochemicals associated with happiness, including oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins. These ”feel good” hormones elevate our mood, lower blood pressure, alleviate depression, and decrease the release of the stress chemical, cortisol, among other things.  

     The human brain has an incredible capacity to process and retain music. We have the ability to memorize and recall the lyrics and melodies to hundreds, if not thousands, of songs. Music does this by engaging the limbic system, which is a complex set of brain structures that form the emotional center of the brain. This explains why some songs make us happy or uplifted, and others make us sad or reflective. For individuals who’ve experienced a stroke, research has proven that the brain can re-wire itself, a process known as neuroplasticity, the lifelong ability of the brain to change. Indelible musical memories may help restore cognition and speech in these patients. 

     And this brings me to the astonishing event I witnessed while spending time with a friend who recently experienced a stroke that left him paralyzed on one side as well as with aphasia, which impacts the ability to speak. Patients experiencing aphasia are often unable to say a few words or may repeat the same words and phrases over and over. This has been true for my friend in the two months since the stroke. During my most recent visit at the rehab facility he currently resides in, I noticed he kept repeating a simple three-word phrase. He might also utter a word here and there, but not much else. He can nod his head for simple yes and no questions, and his trademark facial expressions are intact. (I must add that he’s only been at the rehab facility for one week, so intense therapy has just recently begun.) I have years of experience as a hospice volunteer, and our training includes ways we can engage with patients who’ve been diagnosed with dementia or are heavily sedated. One way to connect with them is with music. Prior to my visit, I prepared a classic rock playlist on my phone, as I planned to use music as a way to connect with him. I could never imagine what would transpire.

     The first song played was “It’s Over,” by Boz Scaggs. Almost immediately, I noticed how engaged he was with the music. His left foot began moving to the beat, and he smiled. We listened for a minute or two and then I switched to another tune. I repeated this for a few more songs and then I played “Bohemian Rhapsody,” by Queen. And that’s when IT happened—my friend, who’s been mostly non-verbal for more than two months, began singing along. He knew the words and the melodies and even began nodding his head in time. He was not only “speaking,” he was fully engaged and uplifted. At this point, my adrenaline started pumping as I knew we were onto something. I played other familiar favorites, including “Saturday in the Park,” by Chicago, “Brown Eyed Girl,” by Van Morrison, “Dreams,” by Fleetwod Mac, and “Show Me the Way,” by Peter Frampton. He kept singing along, song after song. It was truly amazing! A few of these impromptu Karaoke moments were captured on video, precious mementos from this awe-inspiring miracle of sorts. 

     Research has proven that music therapy can significantly improve language recovery and motor function following a stroke event. And singing stimulates speech, pronunciation, articulation, and vocabulary recall. In a span of about two hours, I witnessed the power of music and its ability to dig deep into our soul and awaken us to new possibilities, even after we’ve suffered a brain trauma event such as a stroke.

     The videos are saved on my phone and in the Cloud, and they will forever be imprinted on my heart. I’m grateful for bearing witness to this incredible experience, but mostly hopeful that my friend will make a full recovery thanks to the extensive physical and speech therapy he is receiving. And now, music therapy, too. He’s proof the music is within us all.  

Reading Recap 2023

It’s already two weeks into a new year. I hope yours is off to a good start. I set a reading goal of 60 books and achieved that number just as the calendar prepared to flip. As always, my list contains a mixture of genres, including fiction, non-fiction, and self-help. There is one book that stands out as a favorite, a book that captivated me from page one: The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America’s Great Migration by Isabel Wilkerson. I highly recommend it!

“A book is a gift you can open again and again.” Garrison Keillor

TITLEAUTHOR
The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ckMark Manson
The Great AloneKristin Hannah
AWE: The Automatic Writing ExperienceMichael Sandler
The Grieving Brain: The Surprising Science of How We Learn from Love and LossMary-Frances O’Connor, PhD
Iona Iverson’s Rules for CommutingClare Pooley
The Authenticity ProjectClare Pooley
The Joy Luck ClubAmy Tan
We Should Not Be Friends: The Story of FriendshipWill Schwalbe
Tomorrow and Tomorrow and TomorrowGabrielle Zevin
On Hitler’s MountainIrmgard A. Hunt
The Good Life: Lessons From The World’s Longest Scientific Study Of HappinessRobert Waldinger, MD & Marc Schultz, PhD
Hello BeautifulAnn Napolitano
At Heaven’s Door: What Shared Journeys To The Afterlife Teach About Dying Well and Living BetterWilliam J. Peters with Michael Kinsella, PhD
The VillaRachel Hawkins
Reckless GirlsRachel Hawkins
Snap Out Of ItMaddie Dawson
Matchmaking for BeginnersMaddie Dawson
The Body PapersGrace Talusan
The Opposite of MaybeMaddie Dawson
The Survivor’s Guide to Family HappinessMaddie Dawson
The Collected Regrets of CloverMikki Brammer
The Book of Lost NamesKristin Harmel
Before We Were YoursLisa Wingate
Wake Up With Purpose: What I’ve Learned in My First Hundred YearsSister Jean with Seth Davis
The Four WindsKristin Hannah
The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America’s Great MigrationIsabel Wilkerson
The TrailMeika Hashimoto
Before and After: The Incredible Real-Life Stories of Orphans Who Survived The Tennessee Children’s Home SocietyJudy Christie and Lisa Wingate
Finding DorothyElizabeth Letts
Community BoardTara Conklin
The GuncleSteven Rowley
Wade In The WaterNyani Nkrumah
Find The Good: Unexpected Life Lessons From A Small-Town Obituary WriterHeather Lende
You’ll Never Believe What Happened to Lacey: Crazy Stories About RacismAmber Ruffin & Lacey Lamar
The Third WifeLisa Jewell
The Extraordinary Life of Sam HellRobert Dugoni
The In-Between: Unforgettable Encounters During Life’s Final MomentsHadley Vlahos, RN.
Finding The Words: Working Through Profound Loss with Hope and PurposeColin Campbell
Keeper and KidEdward Hardy
Welcome To Beach TownSusan Wiggs
The Family RemainsLisa Jewell
Return To Willow LakeSusan Wiggs
Watching YouLisa Jewell
And Then There’s MargaretCarolyn Clarke
The Book Woman’s DaughterKim Michele Richardson
The SecretRhonda Byrne
Natural Causes: An Epidemic of Wellness, the Certainty of Dying, and Killing Ourselves to Live LongerBarbara Ehrenreich
The Storied Life of A.J. FikryGabrielle Zevin
The WhispersAshley Audrain
The Covenant of WaterAbraham Verghese
A Heart That WorksRob Delaney
The Jolliest Bunch: Unhinged Holiday StoriesDanny Pellegrino
First Gen: A MemoirAlejandra Campoverdi
Legitimate Kid: A MemoirAida Rodriguez
Homer: The Ninth Life of a Blind Wonder CatGwen Cooper
Amazing Grace AdamsFran Littlewood
Being Henry: The Fonz…and BeyondHenry Winkler
Dear Jacob: A Mother’s Journey of HopePatty Wetterling with Joy Baker
The Little LiarMitch Albom
Homer’s Odyssey: A Fearless Feline Tale, Or How I Learned About Love and Life with a Blind Wonder CatGwen Cooper

The Little Book That Could

My self-published memoir, Carried By a Feather, won second place in The BookFest Spring 2023 contest in the personal memoir category. I didn’t write the book as a way to earn money or accolades, but rather as a way to share the tragic story of my family of three, which includes the passing of my son and only child. In 2020, I entered the book in a contest and was informed that it scored high but a few things prevented it from winning any prizes. Last year, I decided to spend more time and money to address the issues that were brought to my attention. Once the revisions were complete, I was prepared to put it out there again.

I’ve done little writing since publishing my memoir with no definitive answer as to why. My ultimate goal is to submit essays to literary journals and magazines in the hope of getting a piece professionally published. This is the one thing that still eludes me. Rejection is part of the submission process, so I simply cannot allow the word “no” to distract me from my goals. I’m grateful that my little-book-that-could achieved an award. It’s a validation of sorts, and something I hope will entice me to sit at my computer daily and write. I have nothing to lose and much to gain in the process. A huge thank you to The BookFest and all the people who’ve read and supported Carried By a Feather. I am eternally grateful.

Books of 2022

My 2022 reading list contains sixty-six titles. I read fewer books than the past two years, but that’s a good thing. As the pandemic lessened its grip, I was able to venture out more, which resulted in less reading time. I’m grateful to have reading as a lifelong hobby. Books have enriched my life in many ways, and I look forward to the ones that have yet to be discovered and devoured. I hope 2023 provides you with the time to lose yourself in a good book or two or twenty. Here’s my list:

Hidden Valley Road: Inside the Mind of an American FamilyRobert Kolker
Milk FedMelissa Broder
Apples Never FallLiane Moriarity
The First HusbandLaura Dave
Know My NameChanel Miller
The Seven Husbands of Evelyn HugoTaylor Jenkins Reid
Five Tuesdays in WinterLily King
Eight Hundred GrapesLaura Dave
Boys & Sex: Young Men on Hookups, Love, Porn, Consent and Navigating The New MasculinityPeggy Orenstein
Writers and LoversLily King
Girls & Sex: Navigating the Complicated New LandscapePeggy Orenstein
Super HostKate Russo
Crying In H Mart: A MemoirMichelle Zauner
Salt In My Soul: An Unfinished LifeMallory Smith
LuckyMarissa Stapley
The Confession ClubElizabeth Berg
Sarah’s KeyTatiana de Rosnay
Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and RedemptionBryan Stevenson
Oh William!Elizabeth Strout
Chasing Drew HastingsDrew Hastings
The Most Fun We Ever HadClaire Lombardo
Chicken Soup for the Soul: Grieving, Loss, and HealingAmy Newmark
Death in Slow Motion: My Mother’s Descent into Alzheimer’sEleanor Cooney
Ask Me Why I Hurt: The Kids Nobody Wants and The Doctor Who Heals ThemRandy Christensen, MD with Rene Denfeld
All the White Friends I Couldn’t KeepAndre Henry
Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us WholeSusan Cain
The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly DepartingBronnie Ware
Real Change: Mindfulness to Heal Ourselves and the WorldSharon Salzberg
Emotional Inheritance: A Therapist, Her Patients, and the Legacy of TraumaGalit Atlas, PhD.
From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of LifeArthur C. Brooks
In The Dream HouseCarmen Maria Mcahado
LessAndrew Sean Greer
Love In The Time Of ContagionLaura Kipnis
Unmasked-My Life Solving America’s Cold CasesPaul Holes w/Robin Gaby Fisher
Happy-Go-LuckyDavid Sedaris
The Wishing Year: A House, A Man, My SoulNoelle Oxenhandler
The Right to Write: An Invitation and Initiation into the Writing LifeJulia Cameron
Summer LoveNancy Thayer
Memorial Drive: A Daughter’s MemoirNatasha Trethewey
I Am MalalaMalala Yousafzai
The Next Thing You KnowJessica Strawser
The Speckled Beauty: A Dog and His PeopleRick Bragg
How To Tell A Story: The Essential Guide to Memorable Storytelling From The Moth5 Authors
I Was Told It Would Get EasierAbbi Waxman
Adult Assebly RequiredAbbi Waxman
Where I Come From: Stories from the Deep SouthRick Bragg
Love, Lies, and Lemon CakeSue Watson
The Girls Guide To Love And Supper ClubsDana Bate
The MeasureNikki Erlick
The Light We Give: How Sikh Wisdom Can Transform Your LifeSimran Jeet Singh
A Course In Miracles Made Easy: Mastering the Journey From Fear to LoveAlan Cohen
Remarkably Bright CreaturesShelby Van Pelt
On AnimalsSusan Orlean
Longpath: Becoming the Great Ancestors Our Future NeedsAri Wallach
Here & Hereafter: How Wisdom from the Departed Can Transform Your Life NowTyler Henry
The Gratitude Diaries: How A Year Looking On The Bright Side Can Transform Your LifeJanice Kaplan
We Never Die: Secrets of the AfterlifeMatt Fraser
Seven Days In JuneTia Williams
Signal FiresDani Shapiro
For You When I Am Gone: Twelve Essential Questions to Tell a Life StorySteve Leder
The EditorSteven Rowley
Lessons in ChemistryBonnie Garmus
Lily and the OctopusSteven Rowley
The Camino: A Journey of the SpiritShirley MacLaine
Reclaiming Conversation: The Power of Talk in a Digital AgeSherry Turkle
The Stories We TellJoanna Gaines

Books 0f 2021

It was another challenging year on many fronts. As 2021 rolls into 2022, we are nowhere near the end of a pandemic that enters its third year. While I did get out more in 2021, I still spent a fair amount of time at home, thankful once again for 80 books that helped me pass the time, as well as entertain and enlighten me. And about reading as a hobby… A study of 3,635 older adults found that book readers had a 23-month survival advantage and 20% lower mortality risk compared with nonreaders.

So as we begin a new year, grab a seat, a book and sit back and lengthen your lifespan. Here’s my 2021 reading list, which includes 28 works of fiction, as well as memoirs, spiritual books, and a few self-help titles:

Just Kids by Patti Smith
My Wife Said You May Want To Marry Me by Jason B. Rosenthal
Girl Gurl Grrrl: On Womanhood and Belonging in the Age of Black Girl Magic by Kenya Hunt
Do You Mind If I Cancel (Things That Still Annoy Me) by Gary Janetti
Redhead by the Side of the Road by Anne Tyler
The Beginner’s Goodbye by Anne Tyler
The Best of Me by David Seders
American Dirt by Jeanine Cummins
Clock Dance by Anne Tyler
Unaccustomed Earth by Jhumpa Lahiri
Nobody Will Tell You This But Me by Bess Kalb
Wedding Toasts I’ll Never Give by Ada Calhoun
Tiny Beautiful Things—Advice On Love and Life From Dear Sugar by Cheryl Strayed
Empty: A Memoir by Susan Burton
The Midnight Library by Matt Haig
The Last Days of John Lennon by James Patterson
Show Me the Way by Jennifer Luck
Sanctuary—A Memoir by Emily Rapper Black
Why We Can’t Sleep—Women’s New Midlife Crisis by Ada Calhoun
Chronicles of A Radical Hag (With Recipes) by Lorna Landvik
Me Before You by Jojo Moyes
Leave Out The Tragic Parts by Dave Kindred
After You by Jojo Moyes
Life and Other Inconveniences by Kristan Higgins
Bookends by Jane Green
If You Tell: A True Story of Murder, Family Secrets, and the Unbreakable Bond of Sisterhood by Gregg Olsen
The Apology by Eve Ensler
Unbearable Lightness: A Story of Loss and Gain by Portia De Rossi
I Was Told There’d Be Cake by Sloane Crosley
The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron
Paris For One & Other Stories by Jojo Moyes
Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted by Suleika Jaouad
Good Company by Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney
That Bird Has My Wings: The Autobiography of an Innocent Man on Death Row
by Jarvis Jay Masters
Everyday Grace: Having Hope, Finding Forgiveness, and Making Miracles
by Marianne Williamson
On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss
by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross & David Kessler
We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngoni Adichie
When Harry Met Minnie by Martha Teacher
The Nest by Cynthia D’Aprix Sweeney
Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America by Barbara Ehrenreich
The Three Mothers: How the Mothers of Martin Luther King, Jr., Malcolm X, and James Baldwin Shaped a Nation by Anna Malaika Tubbs
From Scratch: A Memoir of Love, Sicily, and Finding Home by Tembi Locke
My Remarkable Journey: A Memoir by Katherine Johnson
Pack Up The Moon by Kristan Higgins
Reasons To Stay Alive by Matt Haig
Notes On Grief by Chimamanda Ngoni Adichie
Open House by Elizabeth Berg
The Road Trip by Beth O’Leary
The Wheel of Life: A Memoir of Living and Dying by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross-Ross
Healing Lessons by Sidney J. Winnower, MD with Nick Taylor
The Other Wes Moore: One Name, Two Fates by Wes Moore
The Astonishing Power of Emotions (Abraham Hicks) by Esther and Jerry Hicks
The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield
Ask and It Is Given by Esther and Jerry Hicks
There Are No Accidents: Synchronicity and the Stories of Our Lives by Robert H. Hock
Another Door Opens: A Psychic Explains How Those in the World of Spirit Continue to Impact Our Lives by Jeffrey A. Wands
The Lightworker’s Way: AwakeningYour Spiritual Power to Know and Heal
by Doreen Virtue, PhD.
Little And Often by Trent Preszler
The Flatshare by Beth O’Leary
Dancing at the Pity Party: A Dead Mom Graphic Memoir by Tyler Federal
It’s OK That You’re Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn’t Understand
by Megan Devine
Untethered by Julie Lawson Timer
Keep Sharp: Build a Better Brain at Any Age by Sanjay Gupta, MD
Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life
by Susan David
A Carnival of Snackery: Diaries 2003-2020 by David Seders
Five Days Left by Julie Lawson Timmer
It’s Better This Way by Debbie Macomber
Staying at Daisy’s by Jill Mansell
Furnishing Eternity: A Father, a Son, a Coffin, and a Measure of Life by David Giffels
Dalton and Grace: Whimsical Short Stories of Life in Charleston
by Bill and Ann Stevens
Barnstorming Ohio (To Understand America) by David Giffels
The Gate House by Nelson Demille
The Stranger in the Lifeboat by Mitch Albom
Smashed: Story of a Drunken Childhood by Koren Zailckas
37 Seconds: Dying Revealed Heaven’s Help by Stephanie Arnold with Sari Padorr
‘Tis by Frank McCourt
The Last Thing He Told Me by Laura Dave
Spiritual Graffiti: Finding My True Path by MC Yogi
Tell The Wolves I’m Home by Carol Rifka Brunt
The Personal Librarian by Marie Benedict and Victoria Christopher Murray

Books of 2020

2020 was a lemon of a year. Instead of whipping up pitchers of lemonade, I read. Lots and lots of books. The local library closed for about two months, so after plowing through the few loaned books I had, I began downloading books on my iPad via Hoopla, a free online media source. I also purchased a few books to add to my home collection. In June the library reopened, and I was once again able to borrow hard copies to help soak up time. By year’s end, my list grew to an all-time personal record—82 books! I highlighted my top five choices in red, which are split among the genres of biography, fiction, memoir, and self-help.

I wish you well as we begin a new year, and hope your days are filled with joy, good health, connection with others, and books.

TITLEAUTHOR
Finding Chika: A little girl, an earthquake, and the making of a familyMitch Albom
Wild Game: My Mother, Her Lover, and MeAdrienne Brodeur
The Time KeeperMitch Albom
The Deepest Well:Healing the Long-Term Effects of Childhood AdversityNadine Burke Harris, M.D.
Onederland: My Childhood with Type 1 DiabetesJamie Kurtzig
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone?Lori Gottlieb
Images of America: GreenhillsDebbie Mills and Margo Warminski with the Greenhills Historical Society
The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative BattlesSteven Pressfield
BecomingMichelle Obama
The Unbreakable ChildKim Michele Richardson
Finding Your Way Home: A Soul Survival KitMelody Beattie
Brother & Sister: A MemoirDiane Keaton
Gay Like Me: A Father Writes to His SonRichie Jackson
The Two Lives of Lydia BirdJosie Silver
The Book of DelightsRoss Gay
Dear EdwardAnn Napolitano
Cincinnati Goetta: A Delectable HistoryDann Woellert
One Day in DecemberJosie Silver
Zen in the Art of WritingRay Bradbury
Signs: The Secret Language of the UniverseLaura Lynne Jackson
Mortuary Confidential: Undertakers Spill the DirtTodd Harra and Kenneth McKenzie
Beginner’s Guide to NumerologyJoy Woodward
An Abbreviated LifeAriel Leve
The Light Between Us: Stories from Heaven, Lessons for the LivingLaura Lynne Jackson
Sorry I’m Late, I Didn’t Want to Come: An Introvert’s Year of Living DangerouslyJessica Pan
Everything is Horrible and WonderfulStephanie Wittels 
Driving Miss Norma: One Family’s Journey Saying “Yes” to LivingTim Bauerschmidt and Ramie Liddle
This Could Change EverythingJill Mansell
Slow: Simple Living for a Frantic WorldBrook McAlary
Stories I’d Tell My Children (but maybe not until they’re adults)Michael N. Marcus
A Different Kind of Same: A MemoirKelley Clink
The HideawayLauren K. Denton
Changed By Chance: My Journey of Triumph Over TragedyElizabeth Barker
Recipe For a Perfect WifeKarma Brown
Splitting the Difference: A Heart-Shaped MemoirTre’ Miller Rodriguez
Fire Season: A MemoirHollye Dexter
Let’s Talk About Death Over DinnerMichael Hebb
Green Nails and Other Acts of Rebellion: Life After LossElaine Soloway
A Leg to Stand On: An Amputee’s Walk into MotherhoodColleen Haggerty
Four Funerals and a Wedding: Resilience in a Time of GriefJill Smolowe
Do Nothing: How to Break Away from Overworking, Overdoing, and UnderlivingCeleste Headlee
The End of Your Life Book ClubWill Schwalbe
St. Francis Society for Wayward PetsAnnie England Noblin
Her Beautiful BrainAnn Hedreen
Dumped: Stories of Women Unfriending WomenEdited by Nina Gaby
Flip-Flops After Fifty: And Other Thoughts on Aging I Remembered to Write DownCindy Eastman
The FallenDavid Baldacci
The Keeper of Lost ThingsRuth Hogan
Many Lives, Many Masters: The True Story of a Prominent Psychiatrist, His Young Patient, and the Past-Life Therapy That Changed Both Their LivesBrian L. Weiss, MD
We Got This: Solo Mom Stories of Grit, Heart, and HumorMarika Lindholm and other authors
My Sister’s GraveRobert Dugoni
Bones Never LieKathy Reichs
Wild and Precious LifeDeborah Ziegler
Found: A MemoirJennifer Lauck
Secret Girl: A MemoirMolly Bruce Jacobs
Marrow: A Love StoryElizabeth Lesser
A Perfect ProposalKatie Fforde
Dead Guy’s StuffSharon Fiffer
RedemptionDavid Baldacci
Too Much and Never Enough: How My Family Created the World’s Most Dangerous ManMary Trump
A Cold TrailRobert Dugoni
UntamedGlennon Doyle
Writers and LoversLily King
I Feel Bad About My Neck and Other Thoughts on Being a WomanNora Ephron
Life After Suicide: Finding Courage, Comfort, & Community After Unthinkable LossJennifer Ashton, M.D.
Your Voice in My HeadEmma Forrest
The House on Olive StreetRobyn Carr
Bunco: A Comedy About the Drama of FriendshipRobin Delnoce
Past Lives With Pets: Discover Your Timeless Connection to Your Beloved CompanionsShelley A. Kaehr, PhD
Anxious PeopleFredrik Backman
Walk The WireDavid Baldacci
You Ought To Do A Story About MeTed Jackson
And Every Morning The Way Home Gets Longer And LongerFredrik Backman
The Friends We KeepJane Green
The Buddhist on Death RowDavid Sheff
The Lost and Found BookshopSusan Wiggs
The Spirit’s Way HomeNatalie Fowler
Finding Freedom: Writings From Death RowJarvis Jay Masters
Britt-Marie Was HereFredrik Backman
Prozac NationElizabeth Wurtzel
No Time Like The Future: An Optimist Considers MortalityMichael J. Fox
So You Want To Talk About RaceIjeoma Oluo

Mother Earth Gets Her Day

In 1970, twenty million Americans came together on behalf of the planet, creating a day that pays homage to Mother Earth. Fifty years later, Earth Day is recognized around the world as its network has grown to 75,000 partners in 190 countries. There are many ways we can honor and respect our planet, not just today, but every day. Here are a few suggestions:

  • Reduce, reuse, recycle
  • Use energy-efficient appliances
  • Purchase a fuel-efficient car
  • Vow to have at least one “no drive” day per week
  • Conserve energy and water: Turn off lights when not in use, be mindful of thermostat settings, limit your time in the shower, turn off the faucet when brushing your teeth

Many years ago, the Prophet Muhammad said, “Be in this world as if you were a stranger or a traveler.”

Mohamed Irshad was reminded of these words as the world came to a virtual standstill in the face of the COVID-19 pandemic. He said this on April 1, 2020:

We fell asleep in one world and woke up in another.

Suddenly Disney is out of magic,
Paris is no longer romantic,
New York doesn’t stand up anymore,
the Chinese wall is no longer a fortress, and Mecca is empty.

Hugs & kisses suddenly become weapons, and not visiting parents & friends becomes an act of love.

Suddenly you realize that power, beauty & money are worthless, and can’t get you the oxygen you’re fighting for.

The world continues its life and it is beautiful. It only puts humans in cages.

I think it’s sending us a message:

“You are not necessary. The air, earth, water and sky without you are fine. When you come back, remember that you are my guests. Not my masters.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

Sun Day

It’s been a month of Sundays since COVID-19 began its swift spread across our land. Some of us are growing anxious, weary, even stir-crazy. Take a moment today to restart, re-energize, even reinvent yourself. As beings of light, the easiest way to do this is to spend time outdoors, soaking up the sun (and some vitamin D, too.)

If it’s cloudy or rainy where you live, bring the sun inside as you sing along with The Beatles. And yes, it’s ALL RIGHT.

“Here Comes The Sun”

 

 

 

 

What Will You Do With Fourteen Days?

The carrot has been dangled. May 1st has become the targeted date for many businesses to reopen. That’s fourteen days from today. Are you ready? And by ready, I don’t mean ready to head to your place of employment, get a haircut or mani-pedi, or dine-in at your favorite restaurant. I mean, did you milk the global pause for all it’s worth?

Did you spend quality time with family? Did you engage with nature? Did you find creative ways to work from home and/or help kids with schoolwork? Did you check off items on a to-do list? Did you learn something about yourself that you never knew? Are you making a concerted effort to change—change the way you think, change the way you speak, change the way you live, change the way you engage with your community?

If restrictions do lessen in the coming days, I hope you’ll take time now to reflect on all that’s occurred, not only in the world at-large, but also within your own neck of the woods. Jot down a list of things you’re grateful for, and then make another list of things you intend to implement or do differently in the coming weeks and months. Post these lists where you can see them and refer to them daily. We are humans, creatures of habit, resisters of change. We’ll need reminders so as not to fall back into old habits and routines.

I’ll end with a little bit of a nudge from Karen Lamb:

” A year from now you will wish you had started today.”