In 2017, I vowed to publish my reading list on a quarterly basis. By all estimates, I should have about six posts. As noted by the title, this is post #3. Oops! As is often the case, my non-conventional life interrupts my free time, which in turn results in a reduction in leisure activities such as reading. After spending about four months attending to “business, ” I have been consciously carving out time to spend with books, the best friend and distraction a girl can have. The list is all non-fiction (think memoirs and self-help books) with the exception of one novel, a bestseller that was published about four years ago. Happy reading!
- Let’s Explore Diabetes with Owls-David Sedaris
- When You Are Engulfed in Flames-David Sedaris
***I had the pleasure of attending an evening with David Sedaris later last year thanks to an invitation from fellow “bookie.” (If a person who loves food and cooking is a Foodie, is someone who loves books and reading a Bookie?) Anyway, it was a fantastic evening of laughter and stories. I had read a few of Mr. Sedaris’ books prior to the event and then got caught up on a few more afterwards.
3. Running With Scissors-Augesten Burroughs
4. Dry-Augesten Burroughs
***Both books by Augesten are memoirs. I admit I had a bit of an issue getting through Running With Scissors. I found his childhood story difficult to read. The story is disturbing and actually somewhat unbelievable. It did however, reinforce my belief that we really never know the horrors and dysfunction that are the norm for so many children. I am grateful that some are able to go back in time, remember and then write about their experiences and share them publicly.
5. Happiness-Heather Harpham: This memoir is about a seriously ill child born out-of-wedlock (is that an outdated term in 2018?) to the author and her boyfriend, who chooses, at least initially, to exclude himself from the life of his daughter and her mother.
6. The Four Tendencies: The Indispensable Personality Profiles That Reveal How to Make Your Life Better (and Other People’s Lives Better, Too)-Gretchen Rubin: This self-help book asks the question, “How do I respond to expectations?” and then divides people into four personality groups. Learn which group you fall into and how your personality profile influences your home, work and community life.
7. The Shift: One Nurse, Twelve Hours, Four Patients’ Lives by Theresa Brown, RN: I have had many encounters with nurses, both personally and professionally. As with any profession, there are some for which this is a true calling and for others what I consider a mistaken career choice. Ms. Brown was called to nursing, and her account of “a day in the life of” was an easy and interesting read for me.
8. Kitchen Table Wisdom by Rachel Naomi Remen, M.D.: This book is a series of insightful stories designed to teach the reader about healing, loving and living. It reinforces my belief that “we all are one,” and that with kindness and empathy we can all learn to aid in the healing of another’s emotional wounds simply by listening and sharing. First published over 20 years ago, the message is still completely relevant today. Important advice for living in our current environment that seems to be full of selfishness and a lack of kindness and empathy for others.
9. The Gifts of Imperfection-A Guide to a Wholehearted Life (Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are) by Brene Brown: This book and author were recommended to me. Categorized as self-help, Ms. Brown outlines 10 guideposts to living a life that accepts that none of us are perfect though society tries to tell us that we must be perfect.
10. Quiet-The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking by Susan Cain. As an extrovert and one-time wife and mother of introverts, I found this book interesting and insightful and one that I probably should have read some time ago. As I often struggled to understand my introverted son and how best to parent him, I ALWAYS knew and believed that the world needs introverts. They are generally kind, sensitive and great listeners and observers. Most of us do talk too much and listen too little. One of the greatest things that I took away from this book is that our society often forces introverts to act and behave like extroverts, and that this is occurring daily in schools and the workplace. Who decided that extroverts possess the better personality? Another reason to also read numbers 8 and 9 on this list as well as this selection.
11. Saving Simon-How a Rescue Donkey Taught Me the Meaning of Compassion by Jon Katz. This is another animal-themed memoir by Mr. Katz. I enjoyed the book and its reinforcement of living a compassion-filled life. That includes compassion for ALL living things, including animals both domestic and wild.
12. Educated by Tara Westover: If you have read The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls and Hillbilly Elegy by J.D. Vance, you will love this newer release and first book by Ms. Westover. The book chronicles the unconventional lifestyle of the Westover family. It is a book about religious fanaticism, mental illness, abuse and more. Just like the two afore-mentioned memoirs, I found parts of her story disturbing and frankly unimaginable but cheered for her as she managed to break free and find her way to an education and world outside the confines of her warped Idaho home.
13. A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman: I am thrilled that I finally found my way to this cute, funny, heartwarming work of fiction that the world discovered long before me. Ove reminds me of several people who I have crossed paths with- crusty, hard and seemingly uncaring on the outside, yet soft, warm and compassionate on the inside. I think Ove is LOVE without the L.
I saved the following book for last, as I intend to incorporate some of its teachings into a post about living with less “stuff.” It ties into my year (2017) of diminished spending, which included differentiating between needs and wants, that was in part due to a period of unemployment. More about that to come…..
14. goodbye, things, The New Japanese Minimalism by Fumio Sasaki: This is a rather short, easy read that introduces the reader to living a life without stuff. The concept is pretty radical in my opinion, but there is substance and good advice in learning about living a life where we are not held captive by our things. It is food for thought.
Thanks for reading my post. If you have any books that you think I might be interested in, please send me their titles in an email, text message or via Facebook. As one of my son’s elementary teachers used to tell her students, “Read, read, read.